How far do you want to take it?
Light: to break the ice and get to know each other better. Sweet, nostalgic and fun.
Spicy: more personal, with more tension. Flirting, desire and a little daring.
Hot is played in the app
On Hot, the games stop being just flirting: desire, fantasies and intimate dares come in. That content lives in Naughty Match, where each of you plays from your own phone and picks, separately, which topics you're into. Nothing shows up unless you both said yes.
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Extreme is played in the app
Extreme is the no-filter level: the most intense dares in Naughty Match. It's in the app, and before you start, each of you sets your own limits. The game never goes further than what you both agreed to.
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Over text or WhatsApp
Six games to play over text
The easiest way to get a conversation going when neither of you has anything new to say. It takes zero effort, fits between meetings, and every answer begs a follow-up: wait, why that one?
How to play
- One of you sends two options, no context.
- The other picks one, and adds a one-line why if they feel like it.
- Switch. Once the obvious ones run out, start making them about the two of you.
What it does for you
You find out tastes and priorities that never come up in normal conversation, and you stock up on things to talk about on the next call. Low-key chemistry: you laugh and learn at the same time.
Examples · Light
- Would you rather have a movie night in or a road trip with no plan?
- Would you rather get a long text from me or a voice note?
- Would you rather have breakfast in bed or dinner out?
Examples · Spicy
- Would you rather have slow kisses or urgent ones?
- Would you rather I tease you over text all day or surprise you out of nowhere?
- Lights on or lights off?
It's an excuse to share things that have never come up. New couples get to know each other faster; couples who've been together for years find out there's still plenty left to discover.
How to play
- Text three statements about yourself: two true, one made up.
- Your partner guesses which one is the lie.
- If they get it wrong, you owe them the story behind the truth they didn't buy.
What it does for you
The fun isn't in guessing right. It's the story that comes after. No other texting game gets you asking this many follow-up questions.
Examples · Light
- I once got lost in an airport for four hours.
- My first job was at an ice cream shop.
- I know how to cook exactly three dishes.
Examples · Spicy
- I once sent a flirty text to the wrong person.
- I noticed you way before you noticed me.
- I keep having the same dream about you and I've never told you.
For the days when neither of you has the energy for a long chat. It's quick and visual, and if you use your own memories, it turns into a little rewind of your relationship.
How to play
- Pick a movie, a song or a memory the two of you share.
- Tell it using only emojis. No words.
- Your partner gets three guesses.
What it does for you
When you play with shared memories, every right guess takes you both back to a moment together. When you're far apart, that hits.
Examples · Light
- 🍿🦁👑 — a movie
- ✈️🌧️☕😂 — the day you met
- 🎤🚗🌙 — the song from that road trip
Examples · Spicy
- 🍷😏🛋️ — how your best date ended
- 🛁🕯️👀 — a plan for when you're together again
- 📱🔥🙈 — that text neither of you will forget
It makes you think about what your partner actually knows about you. Every yes-or-no question says something about how they picture you.
How to play
- One of you thinks of something: a place, an object, a memory or something you want.
- The other gets twenty yes-or-no questions.
- Guess it before question twenty and you win, and it's your turn to think of one.
What it does for you
A guessing game that stays tense until the last question. And when the thing to guess is something you want, the conversation changes tone all on its own.
Examples · Light
- I'm thinking of a place we've been together.
- I'm thinking of something I want to get you.
- I'm thinking of a plan for our next date.
Examples · Spicy
- I'm thinking of something I want to do with you when I see you.
- I'm thinking of a part of you I can't stop thinking about.
- I'm thinking of a fantasy I haven't told you yet.
A story you write together, one line each. It can last one night or a whole week, and every text leaves the other one wanting to write the next line.
How to play
- One of you writes the opening line.
- The other adds the next one. No deleting, no editing.
- When it's done, read it from the top, ideally out loud on a call.
What it does for you
You make something together even though you're apart. And what each of you chooses to write says a lot about what's on your mind.
Examples · Light
- “We met at a train station, neither of us knowing where we were headed…”
- “We opened the hotel room door and it was not the room we'd booked…”
- “We had one free day in a city we'd never been to…”
Examples · Spicy
- “You showed up earlier than I expected, and I'd just stepped out of the shower…”
- “The power went out in the whole building and we were alone…”
- “You sent me a text with just one word: come.”
The game that works best long distance, because nobody can copy anybody. One of you answers about yourself, the other tries to predict that answer.
How to play
- One of you sends a question.
- You both type your answer without hitting send: one about yourself, one predicting.
- On three, you both send at the same time and compare.
What it does for you
Every match proves you know each other; every miss starts a new conversation. It's the core of Naughty Match, where the questions are already written and the answers stay hidden until the end.
Examples · Light
- What's my go-to comfort food after a bad day?
- What would I do with a free day and zero plans?
- What song would I put on to start a road trip?
Examples · Spicy
- What do I love most when you do it to me?
- Where would I want our next night together to be?
- Which of your outfits do I like best?
On a phone or video call
Four games for when you can talk
The classic, rebuilt for distance: every dare can be done with what you've got on hand, your phone, your voice and your camera. It gives the video call a direction other than recapping your day.
How to play
- Take turns picking truth or dare.
- Truths get answered on the spot. No passing.
- Dares get done right there: a voice note, a photo, a song, something on camera.
What it does for you
Trust, because the truths ask for honesty, and laughs, because the dares put each of you on the spot. Together, they pull you closer.
Examples · Light
- Truth: what did you think the first time you saw me?
- Dare: send me a photo of whatever's in front of you right now.
- Dare: sing me the chorus of our song.
Examples · Spicy
- Truth: what's your boldest memory of us?
- Dare: send me a voice note telling me what you'd do if I were there.
- Dare: whisper into the phone what you like most about me.
One of you fires off quick questions and the other answers without thinking, for thirty seconds straight. No time to filter means answers you'd never give if you had time to think.
How to play
- Set a 30-second timer.
- One fires short questions; the other blurts out the first thing that comes to mind.
- Switch, and at the end pick the answer that surprised you most.
What it does for you
Spontaneity. It's the cure for calls that have started to feel like a routine.
Examples · Light
- Beach or mountains?
- Favorite movie as a kid?
- First thing you'd do when you see me?
Examples · Spicy
- My best kiss?
- One word for our last night together?
- Your favorite thing about my body?
Each of you picks a song that says how you feel about the other and plays it on the call. It's a way to say things that are hard to put into your own words.
How to play
- Each of you picks a song in secret.
- Take turns playing it on the call, no explanation.
- When it ends, the other guesses why you picked it, then you tell them the real reason.
What it does for you
Tenderness. Plus a playlist that'll be all yours the next time you're together.
Examples · Light
- The song that was playing when we met.
- A song that makes me think of you on my way to work.
- The song I want playing when we see each other again.
Examples · Spicy
- A song that takes me back to our last night together.
- The song I'd put on for a night with you.
- A song that says what I'd do to you.
Describe a memory of the two of you without saying where or when it happened, and your partner has to guess it. It sounds like a memory game, but it's really something else: you find out which details stuck with each of you.
How to play
- Pick a memory you share.
- Describe it in detail —what you heard, how you felt— without naming the place or the date.
- Your partner guesses. If they can't, keep adding clues.
What it does for you
The good kind of nostalgia, and the feeling that your story is something the two of you built together.
Examples · Light
- “It was cold, we shared something warm and laughed at a stranger.”
- “It was the first time you introduced me to someone important to you.”
- “It was raining and we didn't have an umbrella.”
Examples · Spicy
- “It was the first time we couldn't wait to get home.”
- “We barely slept that night.”
- “You were wearing something I still think about.”
Ready to copy
Questions to text your partner
Copy them as they are, or use them for How well do you know me? They change with the intensity you picked above.
- What's the first thing about me you liked?
- What song makes you think of me?
- If we could be together right now, what would we be doing?
- What do you miss most when we're apart?
- What do you want to do the next time we see each other?
- What's something you're nervous to tell me?
- When did you feel closest to me?
- What about me still surprises you?
- What's something you wish I did more often?
- Which memory of ours would you relive?
- What's the first thing you'd do to me when you see me?
- Which of my outfits do you like most?
- Which of our kisses can't you get out of your head?
- What would you want me to whisper in your ear?
- What fantasy haven't you told me yet?
- What part of me do you miss most?
- Which text of mine had you thinking about it all day?
- When did you want me the most?
- What would you want us to do the second we see each other, no talking?
- What's the boldest thing you'd dare to text me?
🔒 The Hot questions are in the app, along with thousands more at every intensity. How to play it
